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Meeting Recap October 21, 2009

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So, it is official, our 2009-2010 Youth Ministry year has begun. On Sunday,we had our first youth group meeting of the year and judging by the reactions of all those present and the level of participation by all members, I must say, we are off to a great start and are looking forward to a fun year. The fun started right away with several icebreakers (some foolishness on my part at the thought that teenagers have heard of “The Name Game” song) and kept going even through the small group discussions and large group interaction. By the time we broke for free time and snacks everyone was having a great time and seemed to have gotten a lot out of the discussion about World Mission Sunday and what it means to be a missionary.

We discussed the life of St. Francis Xavier and emphasized how he was the second most successful missionary in the history of the Church behind St. Paul. We then focused on what he did and why he was so successful. Outside of being willing to put up with very harsh conditions, this man recognized the importance of living what he taught and truly believed that the people who had not heard of Christ and did not believe in Christ were missing out on something! He then simply took it upon himself to feed them with the truth. That is what it means to be a missionary, to evangelize and to spread the love of Christ through both your words and actions. So, everyone is a missionary and everyone knows people who don’t believe the Truth taught by the Catholic Church. In fact, many of us struggle to understand and believe these teachings. So we must all take it upon ourselves to feed those around us with the Truth by our example and by our words. See this link for thoughts on this by Pope Benedict XVI and check out the bottom of this link for the quotes of St. Francis Xavier we used to further explore our role as missionaries.

At the end of our meeting we discussed very briefly all the upcoming events we have planned through the end of January. We may be adding more, but please check out the upcoming events page for all the details and to sign up.

‘Our Lady of Victory Youth Group’ on Facebook September 23, 2009

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We have officially entered into the modern age of Facebook and have created a ‘Fan Page’ for everyone in the parish who would like to know more about and keep updated on the goings on of the youth group. The great thing about this is that anyone who is already on Facebook will be automatically updated each time more information becomes available on upcoming events, meetings, fundraisers, etc. The down side is that you must be on Facebook to view the site.

For those of you not on Facebook, don’t worry. We will continue to update the blog as well and keep it as up to date as possible. Additionally, we will be using this site as a place for more “thought provoking” material and for posting information we discuss at the meetings. So, check in at both sites if you can and we’ll see you soon!

What is Youth Ministry? September 23, 2009

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Below is the Youth Ministry article for the Victory Vision newsletter from November 2008.  It is our hope that through our service to this parish as youth ministers, we will be able to encourage all people to re-exam the role of Catholic Faith in their lives.  It truly is what defines our whole being and must influence all parts of our lives. Enjoy the article and consider what you can do to help us reach our goals.

This month we’re going to do something a little different with this article and just take some time to talk to you about what youth ministry means to us.  Over the course of the past year, we have planned and organized more than two dozen events including social outings, fundraising opportunities, prayer opportunities and a retreat.  In addition to that, we have organized an opportunity for our youth to participate in a service oriented mission trip to Chattanooga, TN where they also had a chance to learn a little more about their faith.  This is all in addition to our regular monthly meetings that happen on the second Sunday of every month. At first glance, one could easily look at this and be shocked at the number of things that we do and yet others might just shrug and say, “That’s it?” Marianne and I tend to look at all this in a little bit of a different perspective.  Each and every outing or other event we plan is an effort on our part to bring the teens of this parish to a deeper understanding of the Catholic Faith.  Youth ministry is not just a place for young people to have a positive environment to hang out, but it is an activity that challenges them to seriously consider their faith and what it means in their lives.  It’s not so much about what we “do” but about what we believe and what we are passing on. If we are to truly live out our Catholic Faith, then what does that look like?  What does that feel like?  What does that mean in reference to our relationship with the world and our peers at school?  These are all very tough questions and the answer is not easy to come by, but it is the goal of our ministry to help our teens at least get started down the road that leads to all these answers.  Of course, there is no way that we can do this alone!

 

Learning the Faith and living the Faith is a life long process and it involves input from many different sources.  The first of these sources and the one with the most influence is from the parents.  Parents must be involved in teaching their faith to their children. That does not mean that parents have all the answers or that they know the answer to every question or that they drill them on the facts presented in the Baltimore Catechism like many of you went through in grade school, but it does mean that they make an effort to know the Faith and to live it faithfully.  Part of our ministry is to help you do that.  We will do our best to teach your children the truths of the Faith and to send them home with the information we discuss at each meeting (or at least we will post it on our blog), but we also invite you to come and be part of the meeting.  If you have time, come on up and listen to what we have to say and participate in the discussions.  Be with us throughout our retreats and be part of the small groups. Come with us as we introduce new prayer experiences to your teens. Most of all though, make time to discuss your faith with your children at home and make time for prayer with and for your children.

 

The second group we want to acknowledge as being important in the faith life of our teens is the parish in general. Without support and encouragement from the parish, the youth will be lost to our protestant peers who do all they can to welcome the young life of the parish with open arms. I encourage each person to personally invite young people to talk about their faith.  Ask them what they get out of Mass or about the homily they just heard.  Give them a sense of belonging in a Church that so often sees them as the future and not part of the present. 

 

The youth we see each and every month are a blessing to us and to this parish and we want to help them to continue to bless all they meet with the Truth and Love of Jesus Christ through His Church. We are happy to share our faith with you.

Thirst and a little Fun July 8, 2009

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Check out this video about the Catholic Church and let me know your thoughts on it. I personally thought it was amazing. Pay attention to the music and the final message. What does it mean? How does this relate to your life? 

Now just for fun, go and see more videos like the one below. What is your favorite?

Rock Climbing and DDR June 1, 2009

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On Saturday, May 23rd, the youth group went on a very fun and successful outing to RockQuest for a couple hours of fun and challenging rock climbing. Considering the number of people there who were afraid of heights, I must say how impressed I was with the full participation of the all those there as they really helped to motivate and encourage one another as they faced their fears and conquered the wall several times.

Dance Dance 1It was a great experience and it didn’t stop there. When we got back to the church we went up to the youth room for a pizza party and some Dance Dance Revolution hang out time. Our special guest for the evening was Fr. Reutter who came to show his moves on the dance pad as well. As promised, I have a few pictures of his performance. As you can quickly see, he not only showed up, he also got into it and gave it his all. He was determined to pass each of the songs he danced to and everyone had a great time watching.  A special thanks to Father for being such a great sport and for all the support he has given to us since the group’s beginning. Dance Dance 7Dance Dance 4

Looking back over the day and taking some time to reflect, I came to realize how rock climbing can really be a good analogy for our spirtual lives and our relationship with God. I realized that many times in life, we are the ones keeping ourselves from being and doing the things that God has given us the power, grace and talent to do. By putting our trust in God and not losing site of our ultimate goal (which is heaven), though we may make mistakes and fall, God is always there to help us get right back where we were through the help of His sacraments.

Stand By Me: A Message about World Peace April 28, 2009

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There is a relatively new “apostolate” coming to the world called “Playing for Change: Peace through Music.”

Now I want to be totally honest with you and let you know that I am usually very skeptical of groups that try to promote world peace because so many times the individuals being helped are not those that need it but those that are trying to “serve the poor.” Groups often go in and give something to people as if they are lesser than them, as if they are poor and suffering and so many times these groups who are trying to do a wonderful service fail to recognize the innate sense of dignity that each and every one of us possesses from God.  These groups take nothing from those that they “serve” but good feelings and a sense of pride in “look how much I’ve done.”  While of course there is always going to be those feelings, what I find more important is the taking away life lessons of those who can sometimes understand better than us what it means to rely totally on God or what it means to be a family. This video and this “apostolate” makes an effort to learn from all those “unseen” people in our culture gives them a place of dignity.  Watch the faces of those being recorded, look at their surroundings and take away the real sense of joy that these people get in finally getting to utilize some of the talents God has gifted them with.

If you have 10 minutes you can check out this interview, which explains the inspiration for this project and motivation behind it all.

A Few New Links April 9, 2009

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I’ve added a few new links to the side bar.  Go check them out!

Check out these links and while you’re at it, visit the other sites that are linked on the sidebar.  Let me know if you have heard of other great Catholic websites that we can share with everyone!

Upcoming Events Updates April 3, 2009

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Check out our upcoming events page for the latest news on our upcoming events.  We have several things going on in the months of April and May.  Here are the highlights:

  • This weekend’s Prayer Walk has been cancelled.
  • Everybody is welcome to join us to walk the steps at the Church of the Immaculata on Holy Thursday night at 11:15 pm.
  • Our next Fr. Reutter Fundraiser Collection for Alive in You is on the weekend of April 26th
  • We are going Rock Climbing at Rock Quest on April 25th!
  • Next month’s Youth Group meeting is on the First Sunday of the Month!
  • We can no longer do Biggs Bagging and so we must think of other ways to raise money outside our parish. Any thoughts?

We hope you can make it to all these events. If you have any suggestions for other events, or topics for our monthly meetings, please let us know!

Lessons Learned from the New Life Retreat March 30, 2009

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On March 21-22, members of the youth group participated in a Lenten New Life retreat during which the teens learned about how to attain and retain a New Life in Christ through the reception of the Sacraments.  Along the way, I learned a number of little lessons, too:

  1. It might be important to call those who signed up for an event to make sure that it was them that signed up.
  2. Priests may not hang out with teenagers often, but they still know how to have fun.
  3. Walking through life on your own without the help of God is much more difficult than walking with God’s guidance. (Okay, well, at least it’s much easier to walk blindfolded when you have someone there to give you directions.)
  4. Slurping Jell-O through straw is not only possible, but it is extremely fun and makes for a great relay race.
  5. The Sacraments are like the GPS for the Catholic. They give you the directions and the grace you need to reach your ultimate destination, Heaven.
  6. Though it may take hours and hours and hours to put together, the right soundtrack for a reflective prayer component can make all the difference in the effect it has on those particpating.
  7. Yes, high school teenagers can listen to Gregorian Chant without cringing.
  8. Give high schoolers a blank t-shirt, some fabric markers and some puffy paint and they will challenge your faith.
  9. High schoolers are much more creative than I ever was and have a desire to share their faith with the world. (Hmmm…can we combine these two things? Come and take a look at our wall.)
  10. There is nothing like receiving the Sacrament of Reconciliation right before you receive the Eucharist!
  11. Receiving the Sacraments can fill you with joy and energy, even at 1:30 in the morning!
  12. Six hours of sleep is apparently not enough sleep when you want to have a group discussion over breakfast.
  13. Bagels, cream cheese, fruit, milk and orange juice will render the most talkative group practically speechless (or was that just the questions I was asking?)
  14. Seeing pictures of yourself and being reminded of your experience of God is always a good way to end a retreat.
  15. Nurturing your life with Christ is like taking care of a newly planted seed.  It takes time, energy, and dedication.

At the end of the retreat, we sent the participants home with this list of ways that we can all attempt to live the New Life at home everyday:

1.       Find more opportunities to pray (even if it means praying in the shower).

2.       Try to attend Mass as often as possible, at least once a week.

3.       Carry a rosary or some reminder of God in your pocket.

4.       Ask your parents or friends to pray with you (ex: at meals or before bed).

5.       Read about the saints (especially your patron) and ask for their prayers.

6.       Learn simple prayers and memorize them so that you can use them when you need them.

7.       Find a “prayer partner” – a person who prays with you once a week or goes to Mass with you if you/ they have no one else to go with.

8.       Think about and be aware of your movie and music choices (keep those cards from the “Time of Your Life” station).

9.       Make silence part of your daily routine. Give God time to talk (perhaps before or after homework).

10.   Wear Catholic/Christian clothing and represent what the clothing says. Also, just be aware about what message the clothes you wear are sending to others.